By Vicky White
Do you know where the ‘power position’ is for your bed? Did you know everyone who has ever slept in your bed has left some of their energy there?
Your bedroom is the most important room in your house and your bed is a crucial factor in the flow of energy there. Your bedroom affects your health and well-being more than any other room because you spend so much time in it, and when you sleep you are more open to absorbing the energy around you.
Place your bed in the ‘power’ position. The bed’s position in relation to the door is the most important consideration for creating a good flow of energy in your bedroom.
1.The sleeper should have a clear view of the door from their sleeping position. On the deepest level we need to feel protected from unwanted surprises. If this is not possible, you can restore good Feng Shui by placing a mirror to give you a view of the door.
2.The bed should be as far from the door as possible. Ideally it should be in the opposite corner from the door. The farther you sleep from the door and the more of the room you can see while in bed, the more you will feel in control of your environment and your life.
3.Your bed should not be in a direct line with the doorway. If it is, the power of the energy coming in the door towards your bed can create illness, or can split a relationship if it runs up the center of the bed. The worst situation is if your feet point directly towards the door. If you cannot avoid this, you can hang a metal wind chime halfway between the door and bed. The sound of the chime will deflect the rushing chi. Or you can hang a faceted crystal over the foot of the bed.
Your bed holds the energy of anyone who has slept in it. Here are a list of good times to buy a new bed, linens and pillows:
1.You get married – create a fresh, powerful start together.
2.After the death of someone you share the bed with – this will help you move on.
3.You move to a new house – if you want to leave old energy behind.
4.If anyone sharing the bed experiences a major sickness – this will support you in creating good health and preventing illness.
5.A relationship ends – helps clear out old energy and bring in the new.
Who are you sleeping with? It is highly recommended not to buy a second hand bed. This will be holding the energy of a previous owner and all their bedmates! It can retain sexual energy, emotions and illness.
By placing your bed in the ‘power’ position and knowing who you’re sleeping with you have a better chance of creating good health and romance in your life.
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By Anonymous
Smith states that wherein men are physical beings, women are emotional beings. Thus, a man can be ready for sex at the drop of a dime. For a woman, her bedroom pleasure is oftentimes heightened “before” the act of sex by engaging in foreplay that begins outside of the bedroom. That foreplay may come in a variety of ways, such as visual pleasure, a naughty telephone conversation with her man, or shared sexual fantasies. Therein lies the 40 sensual and seductive ways listed in Bedroom Pleasures.
The books material is the compilation of Ms. Smith’s personal thoughts and experiences, round table discussions, questionnaires, pillow talk, and focus groups. It’s a great communication tool for a woman to share with her man. Smith says to “Be generous in sharing these Bedroom Pleasures with your mate, for you too will reap the fringe benefits”.
Sherry Smith is a self ordained romantic and owner of the touring love and relationship expo show titled “IT’S A LOVE THANG!” (www.lovethang.com) of which a portion of all shows is donated to a local shelter for abused women and children.
Contact: Sherry Y. Smith
(818) 209-4500
info@40ways.com
website: www.40ways.com
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By Anonymous
ALEXANDRIA, VA – A romantic bedroom should please the senses. To enhance intimacy on Valentine’s Day – or any day – the Better Sleep Council offers tips and advice on how to transform your bedroom into a love nest that appeals to each of your five senses.
1. Touch. The bed is the focus of any bedroom and the most romantic rooms make it as cozy as possible. Luxurious sheets and plush pillows are wonderful, but the real key is a comfortable mattress, so make sure to have one that feels heavenly and caresses both you and your partner.
2. Sight. Lighting should be soft and filtered; bright lights can detract from the ambience. Use lower wattage light bulbs or those with a soft pink hue. And, for special evenings, nothing adds romance like the warm glow of candles (be sure that lit candles are never left unattended).
3. Smell. Gently wiping your light bulbs with a faint coating of perfume oil can send calming or sensual scents throughout the bedroom. In addition, sprinkling dusting powder on your sheets can make them fragrant and silky. Scented sachets of lavender and rosemary also can add to the air of romance.
4. Sound. Keep your favorite CDs at your fingertips; soft music is one of the easiest ways to elevate your mood. If it's noisy outside your bedroom window, hang thick curtains to muffle the sound. A peaceful bedroom retreat is the place to focus on each other, so keep distractions such as the television in another room.
5. Taste. For a late-night indulgence, place strawberries and whipped cream on a small tray next to the bed. Champagne and champagne glasses also are ideal at the start of a romantic evening at home.
“Evaluate your bedroom, starting with the sense of touch, making sure your bed and mattress are as comfortable as possible. Then, consider the rest of the senses. Because a romantic bedroom can set the mood for the evening, don’t risk having an uncomfortable bed or a noisy bedroom destroy the moment," stated Andrea Herman, Director of the Better Sleep Council.
For more information on buying a new mattress or on getting a good night's sleep, visit the Better Sleep Council's web site at www.bettersleep.org.
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